yeah, I think I'm opening a can of worms but anyway, my friend Barb was so overjoyed that I'd given up my stubborn stance that she opened her laptop and invited me that very minute to join her 'friends' and then another of her friends emailed me to do the same....
( although, I know her as well so thats not as weird as it sounds). I told her how silly it was considering that they were already both my friends.... 
... wonder would Obama be my friend Lisa. -/